How to Stop Being Pathetic When it Comes to Men - The Secret to the Better Way to Get Him Back
I hate to be so straightforward, but some women can be very pathetic when it comes to a man. You know who you are. You are reading this for a reason. Because you are starting feel pathetic in the ways you are handling your relationship. You have become clingy, distrusting, and down right insane. When was the last time you blew up his cell phone? (or are you calling him now while you are reading this?). Ladies there is a better way to keep that man or to get him back; but stalking him is not the answer! Listen to this one time and have it sync in: YOU ARE TURNING HIM OFF!
Following him around isnt the answer either. And its not like he is not interested in you, but doing all of that just pushes him away further. Take a deep breath, and think for a second. Would you want someone to do that to you? Its like you feel that you must have him on a leash. Us men do not want to be on a leash. We like our freedom too. Doing what you are doing is making him feel that you do not trust him and who wants to be with someone that they dont trust. Give him a chance to breath.
Well, simply put, my original advice to this would be to stop being pathetic and move on to a guy you trust more; but that would be too simple of an answer (and I certainly wouldnt be writing an article about that...). You need to follow a couple of steps here and read up on the subject, because you are not doing you or him any favors. The way you are not acting is not healthy for either of you. Even married couples need their space, so lets start giving him that.
Stop Stalking Him
Please, put down the cell phone now. If you two are truly in love, he will call after he hasnt heard from you and is good and ready. He is not sitting by his phone awaiting your call every half hour, and if he is truly with someone else, then you dont need him anyway. And dont just show up at his work, or where you might know he is. That is just creepy.
Talk to Him When the Environment is Right
Let him know you want to talk to him, but let him call or see you when he is ready and then let him know your concerns. Calling non-stop is not the answer. Just have an adult discussion with him. I see more women start a relationship with someone and get all enamored by the guy and then they feel they need to know where he is at all times. That is no way to start the relationship. There are a lot of fish in the ocean, as the saying goes, and there is no reason to get all hung up with someone. Remember, if the relationship is more of a physical one, that wears off pretty quickly, so get past the psychological part of the physical aspect, and try and take it slow.
These are just a couple of bits of advice I can give you. It may sound simple, but you need to practice some self control. Nobody in their right mind will stand for the craziness. Be more nonchalant yourself about things. When he calls dont always pick up right away either. Let him know that you will talk to him when you are good and ready too. He will appreciate that.
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Scott Boehler